By KIM NANCE
Kosciusko Home Care and Hospice

Shirley Tatter’s husband of 58 years spent his last two months on hospice services. “It was Warren’s wish to die at home surrounded by his family and friends,” Shirley shared, “I would have not been able to keep Warren at home without hospice services.”  Warren and Shirley’s pastor suggested they consider hospice and advised it was better to start hospice early. 

Shirley enjoys recalling memories of Warren. “He had a great sense of humor up to the very end and people that knew him called him one of the good guys. He loved the outdoors and taught gun safety to youth and sang with the Chain of Lake chorus,” shared Shirley.

Shirley attends the grief support group offered at Kosciusko Home Care and Hospice lead by the medical social workers. She has attended the support group for three years because it not only helps her, but she feels she can help others that are new to grieving. “I look forward to the grief support groups to meet new friends” said Shirley. For many people, the support group can be a break in the loneliness that often comes with grief.

Kosciusko Home Care and Hospice trained professionals provide bereavement care and grief support for families for up to 13 months after the loss of a loved one. Some families decide to continue with the care and support beyond the 13 months.

Because grief can be so painful, and seems overwhelming, it scares us. Many people worry if they are grieving in the “right” way, and wonder if the feelings they have are normal. It is important to remember that everyone grieves differently. However, if you have concerns about your grief, or how someone else is grieving, feel free to contact a member of the Social Service Department at Kosciusko Home Care and Hospice at (574) 372-3401.